The onslaught of social media and the internet have made adolescent love affairs a very common issue in the society. The adolescents find extreme pleasure, being in a romantic relationship.
Why romance blooms in children during their adolescent age? Let’s dig out the reason.
Their love tank is not filled…..!!
What is a love tank?
“Inside your child there is an emotional tank waiting to be filled by the love of their dear parents. If the parents fill the love tank fully, the child will develop normally.”
The young love affairs among children are motivated by the cravings of an empty love tank. If the parents give enough love and care to the children, then nobody can attract your child at any cost!
How the Love Tank can be filled? The love Languages.
- Let them feel your lovely Touch
- Spend Quality time with your children
- Offer them simple gifts
- Appreciate them, in front of others
The Parents must take extreme care to make the child feel loved and cared from a very stage of growth.
Develop a friendship with the child as he grows up. Make him feel the guarantee of a genuine support from the family whenever he is in need of it.
Build up an ambiance for open communication. Consciously, be a strict and lovable parent. Do not hesitate to show the love and appreciate them. Let them grow in a good and peaceful family atmosphere, It is certain that the family plays a big role in developing the personality of a child.
I assure, your love language can make all the difference in the Relation with your kids. Let’s pave way to a world of mentally healthy children.
Written by,
Mrs. Elizabeth John
Child & Adolescents Counsellor
